I am gender queer / gender fluid / nonbinary. I use they/them and she/her pronouns. This is recent. In the last year… The inclusion of they.

My wife - Allyson - and I moved with our two young children (ages 4 and 7) to Minneapolis from Durham, North Carolina on January 1, 2024. This wasn’t our first relocation, but we are hoping it’s our last!  In 2021, we moved from California to North Carolina, in the hopes of settling down in a place that felt like a good place to raise our kids; a place that we could afford to buy a home; and a place where we didn’t have to be worried about evacuating wildfires. In some ways,

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